You know those games where you are confronted with a dilemma, if there was only one space left in the lifeboat or hot air balloon, who would you choose to save, husband or child? I am assuming all parents would say child without hesitation. It is our maternal/paternal instincts to protect our young. The adult can look after himself whilst the child cannot and his life hasn’t even properly began yet.
And given a choice between cancer and divorce I’d opt for the former any day. Why? You may be shocked by my choice. Cancer is a physical disease which if caught early enough can be treated. There is also a time scale to all the gruelling treatment, you know when the 6 cycles of chemotherapy will end, the 3 weeks of intense radiotherapy Mon to Fri. You can work out accurately to the day when all this will be over.
On the other hand, how long your stay at Heartbreak Hotel is uncertain. Will you ever check out completely? Maybe you will leave and return for a brief visit now and again.